Monday, August 9, 2010

The Adventure Begins...


Goodbye Minneapolis...hello Europe!!!

Well, it looks like we've survived our first (almost) two weeks abroad. Things got a little hairy the last few days in Minneapolis - and we were definitely scurrying around trying to wrap everything up at the 11th hour (in true Miller style:); but we made it - and not just the four of us! Nine pieces of luggage, two computers, two car seats, four carry-ons, two blankets and a pillow. A shout-out goes to sister-in-law Jen for carting us all to the airport - what an adventure!
The airport experience was one I hope to never have to repeat - thank you Lord that we will not be showing our faces in the MSP airport again anytime soon. The airplane ride was also a bit interesting. Bo was not wanting to sleep, and being sick did not help matters. Regardless, we arrived in Brussels at about 9AM...but it felt like about 1AM to us. It took a good week to get adjusted to the time change - sometimes I think the boys are still adjusting - especially Bo.  The first few nights we all would simultaneously wake up at about 2AM and just be awake for a few hours, then sleep in until about noon!
Happy Birthday Daddy!
The first week we spent apartment-searching and just getting acclimated to the area. We were pleasantly surprised by our temporary housing - we were told some horror stories from other families - but it's not bad at all. I am excited, though, to get into our new place and get settled. We decided on an apartment in the city. It had been between that and a house we found on the outskirts. The house was nice, and it would've been good to have a house with the boys, but the apartment is right in the middle of things - a couple of good parks, lots of shops and the metro station, which will be very important since I won't have a car during the day. Besides, we figured we might as well do something completely different - probably the only time in our lives we'll get the chance to live in a city like this! I also have been trying to figure out the public transportation system here - and trying to navigate it with two very active little boys!

Brussels is a very beautiful city - very green and clean! The streets are another thing...although very well kept, the streets are very narrow and a little complicated to navigate. The Belgians love their round-abouts - and I'm sure it'll take us the full two years to finally figure out who is supposed to yield to who. The roads are not marked very well - and they have a myriad of road signs. This all wouldn't be so bad if we weren't given a car with a manual transmission, but as neither of us have really ever driven a stick more than a handful of times a looong time ago, it has made driving a true adventure!


This past weekend we did some exploring locally. Saturday we visited the battlefield of Waterloo. This was the battle that ended Napoleon's empire. There's a monument to all the soldiers slain that you can climb to view the field - and we did - all 226 steps. There were also 'soldiers' and other people dressed in period clothing acting out scenes from their camp and marching, which was interesting to watch, plus Will got a 'sword' so he was in heaven.

Sunday we took the 30 mile (48km!) drive to the city of Antwerp - the major port city of Belgium.  It's a very trendy city with a great market, city square and a beautiful cathedral.  The only problem was that, as it was a Sunday, most of the shops were closed.  This is something that we will definitely have to get used to here in Belgium - things basically shut down on Sundays - grocery stores and many restaurants included!  Best part of the day for me:  finding an international magazine store...People Magazine, how I've missed you! 


So all in all, a good start to our two years in Europe.  This is obviously a very huge adjustment for us, as there are many things that are just 'different' than what we're used to.  For example, the small size of the refrigerators used here makes grocery shopping a must much more frequently than we're used to - at least every other day.  Also, the first time I used the oven (to make Scott's birthday cupcakes!) was certainly a lesson in patience.  I really miss the ease of the life I was used to - like going to the grocery store without feeling like a complete idiot!  The language barrier is huge - and although Scott and I are trying to practice our French frequently, we are faaaaar from being able to have a conversation, let alone simply understand the cashier at the local market!  Since this is a tri-lingual country, we have to worry about two languages - French and Dutch (German is really only spoken in the far east - thank goodness for that!).  The hardest part is certainly missing all our friends and family - and although we're able to keep contact through the Internet and occasional phone calls, the time difference is something we're going to have to get used to.  That being said, I am so grateful for this opportunity, and am trying not to 'wish' the sometimes-lonely moments away - I know it will go too fast already!  Above all else, it has certainly gotten us out of our comfort zone - which is a great thing for me!

Take care and I'll update again soon.  We hope to go the Belgian coast this weekend.  That's my life without a job I guess...planning the next weekend on Monday morning!!
The boys having 'breakfast' at 1PM our third day here!
Enjoying an afternoon at a park.

4 comments:

  1. Jackie-sounds like the fun is only beginning! I love the blog and reading of your family adventures! Thanks for keeping us updated!

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  2. Yay, I get to see pictures and hear about your adventures so far, since I always seem to miss your phone calls:( I hope to at least skype or talk to you soon. I miss our daily phone calls more than you can imagine. But I am thrilled for your experience!! I can't wait to hear about the next trip! Love and miss you all

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  3. Love that you started a blog Jacks! I start back to work soon so this will give me something to do!!! HA! I have more free time at work than I do as a stay at home mom for stuff like this.

    Looks like you guys are adjusting well. Hang in there. And if you're having a bad day, just look at your boys. If the next 2 years goes as fast as the last 3 years, you'll be home in no time! In the meantime, keep the blogs coming. Love seeing all your adventures! Love ya!

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  4. Just wanted to comment and ask for some advice as well. My family and I are planning on permanently emigrating to Belgium this coming spring. I'm a dual citizen Canadian (born and raised in Toronto, but understand the Flemish language). Neither my wife nor children speak Flemish and only a minimal understanding of French. We, unlike your family, are moving without a job waiting for us. My wife has experience in retail management and is a certified British nanny whilst I have trades experience (primarily electrical and HVAC).

    Having said that, we DO however have my extended family as a support network in Belgium. How hard would you anticipate it being for all of us to acclimate ourselves to life in Belgium and to find a home to rent and permanent job? What support networks are available for English speaking expats, etc.?

    I love what I've read so far regarding your experiences as an English speaking family in Belgium and look forward to reading more. Thank you so much for taking the time to share yourselves with others. BTW, have you and your family had "stoofvlees met fritten" yet?

    Finally, have you had any thoughts on remaining permanently in Belgium, as it certainly seems like a much better lifestyle than the North American way of life, which is why we've decided to make the move....so that we can have more quality family time.

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